This phenomenon is the result of internalized misandry; Men with this complex see their own bodies and sexuality so negatively that they feel like they are disrespecting their partners by having sex with them.

The reason that women do not categorize men similarly is not because women “respect” men or because we have “sexual freedom” or are “privileged” to not have our value attached to how much sex we have (that’s what the word virgin is for).

The reason is because women do not self-loathe and are not hostile towards their own sexuality like men are to theirs. Women see themselves as the stars of the show in the first place so have no reason to see having sex with men as degrading to men. It’s the same reason that female rapists and pedos get no stigma, why lesbians don’t get slut-shamed, why women are allowed to masturbate in public and no one ever tackles them to the ground and beats them up like when men do it, why female masturbation isn’t called “gooning”, why there is no female no fap, why its legal to sell prostitution but not to solicit it, and why female circumcision was never as widely practiced as male circumcision (which originated as a way to prohibit boys from masturbating). Female sexuality has always been seen as a blessing, not something people want to control. Male sexuality is controlled.

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