A leader is a person with power who commands others. but the things that women frame as men “leading” them simply amount to men serving them; being their paypigs, being their doormen, being their bodyguards, being their chauffeurs, handymen, etc. This is not leadership, this is servitude. Women want men to serve them and their status as selectors gives them the power to command so. Men don’t have the power to command women to do anything. Women lead by exploiting men’s lack of choice to use us for free labor, period.